Thank YOU REALM for this article! I suppose it was always here, but somehow I missed 'it'...today I needed to read it.
I recently had someone online call to question my recovery and it hurt. They insinuated that I am not clean. They did so due to GOSSIP... I am a cancer patient. I will not/won't go into my meds, it is no one's business but my own. I AM CLEAN....I hate even having to call to question myself because some lerp with whatever motive wanted to harm me, it pisses me off.
If I want someone to 'inventory me' I will certainly ask and if I do ask, it will be someone in the medical field, or someone dear who's recovery I truly trust!
After I my son passed, it was suggested I go on anti-depressant's. I chose not to do so. My personal choice. I believe alot of us in the program have outside issues, many can be resolved following the program, however, the big book states, it is okay to seek outside help. I've chosen to do that, on many occasions, and it has only enhanced my way of life. For that, I am thankful.
NEVER will I tell anyone they are unclean or call their sobriety into question, I've grown beyond that.
Having said that, I realize this is a safe place to say what is on my heart, to laugh, to cry, to vent, within reason, and to help the newcomer. That is the sites primary purpose. This is why I choose to call the "Realm" my home away from f2f 
Lord, help me today to NOT inventory others, for what they do, is none of my business, that is between them and You.
Thanks for letting me share and vent.  |