Hey family, (((hugs)))

I know we have talked about all of this before, but I just wanted to express my appreciation for this site and the people here.  I browse around other sites and read messages and such, and they are so full of anger and, for lack of a better word, "meanness."  It seems no matter what someone posts or says, it has to be met with some sort of rude remark or comment.

I know when I am here that there is nothing but love and support.  That is a priceless gift that so many don't have.  I am grateful to call the Realm my home.  I love all of you.

love and hugs,

chelle

Thanx Chelle for reminding me that Twelve step meetings and chat rooms, both online and off, range in value from poor to excellent. The only way we can truly find out is by attending and experiencing a wide array of meetings and sites. 

However, it is just as important to evaluate how the meeting or chat room “feels.” Was there an opportunity for you to share your comments and concerns? Was there good chemistry? Did you feel connected? Was there adequate time to socialize before and after the meeting? Finding the right support group meetings is essential in developing a strong support network.

Remember that you are embarking upon a very long and difficult journey. Recovery from addiction is not easy and requires tremendous patience and tolerance. Attempt to be gentle with yourself and with your friends in recovery.

The true joy of recovery is in the fellowship and camaraderie. Be honest, be a friend and be committed to your recovery. Nobody ever said it would be easy.

Sobriety IS an Option