BLOG Realm  >  BLOGS Register  Login
Recovery Realm Addiction Alcoholism Chat and Meetings
 
HomeChat and MeetingsMessage ForumsPhotos
   Minimize

alcoholics anonymous , aa , recovery, chat, online, meetings,aa chat room, na chat room, online aa meetings, online na meetings, online sober chatroom, addiction

The BlogRealm provides bloggers, addicted to alcohol or drugs, a place to publish their personal thoughts and commentaries on recovery, addiction and on life as they see it. It is a collection of blogs (or journals) written by a diverse company of individuals from around the world.

Remember- This is NOT the Message Forum ! 

If you are having trouble creating your Blog please go to our FAQ page to find out how it's done.

Happy Blogging !

tcuysnhv6a

  
  Search Blogs Minimize
  
  Blog List Minimize
Addiction: In the 21st Century
~Rants, Raves, and My Life in a Nutshell~
Blog Realm
A Story of Unconditional Love
acceptance
afineline's - If Cows Had Thumbs
Afraid of what might happen
alasvegasdriver1's - Keeping on the path even when straying seems easier
Am I doomed this way?
any
As I See It
ATTENTION RETREADS:Feel like a PRISNER in the MEETING? (Well you probably were)HELP!
bangie aka angieb's - three times a charm ?? i am a newbie
Becomeing Hobie
bnch999's - 30 days past and faith of more to come
Bouncing Back
BradleyA's - Life in early recovery
brittany117
can't stop after many tries
chelle's - Simple Rants to Clear My Mind
Confessions of an ataxic junkie
crashed and burned again
D.U.I. DEATHS
Daily Struggle
Dark Clouds Looming Behind Me
donewith
Dual Diagnosis in recovery
Early Soberity...
Friendly traveller on life's road.
From Drunk to hell and back to hell again
From food to alcohol to drugs to life...
Gothypoo's - I am an Alcoholic
Grampa's House
grotto's - Stopping the insanity
HDMerry's Muisings
Help Advice about Meth abuse
Helping one another by sharing
i cant think of a good tittle at the moment give me a minute ill fix it when i think of one
I Have a Problem...
I.C.A.R.E.=Integrity, Commitment, Accountability, Responsibility, Equality.
i'll get there
I'm Doing The Best I Can!!
kriss's - And now THIS?
life only gets harder?
Lonewolf, Howling out Loud
Lost
lost again
Lost the Will To Live
Loving the folks in front of us is a spiritual pratice we do on behalf of our own growth
MANAGING YOUR FEARS AND ANXIETIES
marileeward's - Sex & Sobriety
marytexas's - Recovery in a Texas "bubble"
Melanies Meanderings
My Journey
MY JOURNEY TO TAPERING OFF OF OPIATES
my life
My recovery
Nancy's - Appreciation and Wealth of Every kind
New an looking 4 truth
new blogger (1st time ever) in NA and AA
New member
New to this site
no traditions =no recovery
Oh my lord what have I gotten myself into..
Openmindedgroupaa
Outright Mentally Defective: My on-going attempt to stay sober and in alcohol remission
Past 180 days clean
Penis Enlargement
Ramblings in the mind of lovleemom
RECOVER CREATIVELY!!!
Reggies blogs
relapses
Shady's Blog
Sick of waking up feeling horrible about what I did the night before
So glad I found this site!
SOBER'S BETTER: soon to be DR. needs help
Stupid Druggz!!
Susan's Story
The Fall and Rise of an Addict...
The Felon and The Cop Fall In Love! <3 !
The Monkey On My Back
TIME WITH THE KIDS
tko2's - A Reference Guide to the Big Book
To delve into the minds addict
well here i am
Who Me? Selfish?
Will this EVER end?
  
  Blog Archives Minimize
    
Most Recent Blog Entries
Mar 17

Written by: recoveryrealm
Saturday, March 17, 2007 

Surely faith must require that we sit still and wait for our HP to act...... Or does it ?
As Alcoholics, few questions confuse us more than what it means to live by faith. When does it mean sitting still and leaving a need completely in the hands of our Higher Power, our God ? Or, When does it mean taking prudent initiative to solve a problem or reach a goal?

Many alcoholics assume that faith usually means the former and not the latter. How often have you heard them say: It's God's will. Is it that we fear that if we take efforts to change things it would usurp God’s authority. Surely faith must require that we sit still and wait for our HP to act. Or does it ?

We have been tought to exercise two different levels of faith at various times. At one level we are to be inactive and wait patiently for our HP to move. Here faith involves believing that God will bring about a solution apart from any effort on our end. Yet just as frequently faith affirms our involvment in taking personal responsibility.

In reality, there can be just as much faith involved in taking personal initiative as there is in waiting passively for God to provide. It is right, then, to speak of a second level of faith that we are to demonstrate as recovering alcoholics. At this level we are active and assertive. We take initiative to find the answer to a need. And by moving forward we force ourselves to a dependence on God that wouldn't be possible if we merely sat still. Remember there is a Time to Be Passive, and a Time to Be Active.

While this distinction is interesting enough, it still leaves the question, when does our HP want us to operate at level 1 faith and when at level 2 ? Let me suggest this: If we are facing a seemingly insurmountable problem--a situation that we believe we are powerless to influence--we should stay at level 1 faith. Yet if there is a reasonable step we can take to improve things or to move toward a goal, then we should assume that God wants us to operate at level 2. When uncertain, think the Serenity Prayer.

We can expect, too, that taking initiative will often require us to express our convictions clearly--even to those who disagree with us--and that God will use our assertiveness to persuade people and open important doors for us. We should always listen carefully to the counsel others give us and be open to having our insights changed by theirs. Yet God will also use us to counsel others and to correct their misunderstandings.

Walking in faith requires that we assert ourselves. We can find the courage to do this if we believe that God will honour our efforts and that others will benefit from our initiative.

I would simply offer two cautions about taking personal initiative. One is that we should consider a step of faith only if we can pursue it without frenzy, within the time and energy limits our HP has given us, and without jeopardizing other commitments we have already made. The other is that our understanding of which steps of faith we should take should grow out of a regular time alone with God, where we carefully think through the direction of our life and what God wants us to do.

As we daily seek direction, we should feel great freedom to take bold initiative to find the best opportunities for using our gifts and building relationships. 

The fact is that God gives us much greater control to change the circumstances of our lives than we tend to think.

 

Tags:

2 comment(s) so far...

Re: Does having Faith in God's will mean being Passive

I like this gives me some thing to really think about.

By renee on   Monday, March 19, 2007

Re: Does having Faith in God's will mean being Passive

This 2 'step' explaination of faith makes a lot of sense, but for me, a third 'way' has been evolving. Due to some hard life circumstances, most of which I have accepted, some which I have not, I feel a bit...no, a lot, abandoned. Like a play thing. In fact, I've gotten pretty angry at HP, and as I have handled true rage in the past, I have fallen into a realm of acknowledging that the individual exists & has the power over me, but me not really caring if He/She is there or leads me or not.
It's not apathy. For with apathy, I wouldn't really care. It's more leary...leary that He/She will require of me, once again, the same sacrifice as before....loss of career, loss of home, loss of love, loss of a faith that truly carried me...I know that if I had been drinking, society would have patted me on the head, treated me w/ kid gloves, sent me to treatment....and the path for me now would be 'so much clearer'. But...(always a but !! lol) I also know the knowledge I have gained from my hard life experience is priceless, as is the growth. The problem is, lack of trust in a HP that I know from experience has my 'best' interests at heart. But my reluctance comes from having to have a relationship of necessity instead of love.
And what kind of a relationship is that? One where if you don't 'do as I say' or 'do as I think', then the heck w/ ya....so my journey to reconnect, though on a different level still continues, as it has for over 20 years in this program....one day at a time.
So for those who still can't 'connect' , there is still hope for us too. The willingness, however small, will still carry us to the next level.
Thanks for listening.

By greywolf on   Sunday, April 08, 2007
Copyright 2011 by | Recovery REALM ©™   |  Privacy Statement  |  Terms Of Use  Web services by gorillaOnline